The weekend started out GREAT! The boys had their first T-ball games on Saturday, one at 8am and the other at 9am. My parents came over and watched them play. The boys had a blast, and Levi is really good this year! He is playing the pitcher position, and is doing a great job!
After this, Mom and I went Easter shopping. We were a little rushed, since Stephen got called into work while we were gone, and had forgotten his wallet in the car (which I was driving). So my dad drove Stephen and the boys to town, and we all met for lunch. Then Stephen went to work, while me, Mom, Dad, and the boys went shopping some more.
Sunday morning we got ready and went to church. After church we took the boys to Bass Pro. We ate there, at the restaurant. (I had grilled Talapia with steamed veggies and wild rice, and water of course). Then the boys got to meet the Easter bunny, color some Easter photos, make some bunny ears, and also did an Easter Egg Hunt; all right there inside Bass Pro! They had
SO MUCH FUN!
After this we went by a sporting goods store to get Stephen some new running shoes. His are worn out, and he was in desperate need.
Then we came back home. Whew! We were exhausted, and Stephen asked me to relax on the couch with him for a few minutes before I got on the treadmill. So I sat down with him, and laid my head over on his chest and relished the peace and quiet. Right about this time, I heard Seth say "don't shoot me with that bow and arrow". I thought "that's put up; they can't reach it in the top of the closet; they must be pretending; Levi knows better anyway; He knows he can't mess with that when we aren't around and he isn't allowed to play with it in the house anyway". Next thing I hear, Seth is bawling the "I'm hurt cry", and Levi comes running, saying "Seth is hurt, Bad! I didn't mean to!". So Seth comes out, with blood all over his chin. I see what looks like a hole, with blood gushing out of it. I freaked. I grabbed him, and turned to Stephen and yelled "he's bleeding, bad, he has a hole in his chin!" (all I could see was a hole, gushing blood, and I was freaking!) So Stephen scooped up Seth, and I looked at Levi and screamed "did you shoot your brother with the bow and arrow?!" he was crying and saying "I didn't mean to". Then Stephen said "Mama, it's okay, we will deal with that in a minute...get me a wet rag." he was all calm, whereas I was frantic. So I got him a rag. Then I went to inspect the playroom, and started scrubbing blood drops out of the carpet....I just couldn't see my baby with blood all over him...so I had to keep myself busy doing something productive, while my husband dealt with the blood and accessed the damage.
After I got everything cleaned up and things calmed down, Stephen asked Levi what happened. He said he was on one end of the playroom, and he had the bow and arrow, and he was just pretending, but the arrow slipped and hit Seth, on the other end of the room. Stephen asked him how far it was pulled back and if it fell or if it stuck in Seth. Levi said he didn't have it pulled all the way back, just a little bit, and it bounced off of Seth's face and hit the floor. I was ready to MURDER him. I have never been so ANGRY with one of my children before, but I was ready to beat him! So I stayed out of it, and let Stephen handle it. I just couldn't. Stephen didn't give Levi a spanking because he said that Levi was really scared and shaken up over everything that had happened, and that was punishment enough. Levi learned his lesson, and that isn't something he will ever forget. We also had a talk with Levi later, about how this is why we tell them to NEVER point an arrow at anyone, not even if you're just kidding, because it can slip and hurt that person. I then also reiterated that this is why we do not play with guns, or point them at people either, because accidents happen, and you can really hurt or even kill someone. We talked to him about how lucky he was, that it didn't go in Seth's eye, or that he didn't have it pulled back so far that the arrow went
into Seth, or that it could have killed him, etc. I think he definitely learned a lesson.
Why was the bow and arrow out where they could get to it? They had been shooting it with Daddy on Friday, and had brought it in, but it hadn't been put back up in the top of the closet yet. Needless to say, we all learned a lesson about putting things like that back up right away, and not leaving them laying around. Luckily it was their "kid's set" with the dull practice arrows. I just Thank God for protecting my baby, and not letting that arrow put his eye out, or kill him.
Thank You God!!!!
Seth's chin bled for a long time, and then Stephen saw that it was deeper than he first thought, so he put a steri strip on it. It looks much better this morning. Starting to dry up some, and close. He will probably have a scar though.
Whew. What a night. I was so shaken up over the whole thing, I was exhausted and had no energy to run after that. I only wanted to sit and cuddle my baby.